Advice columnist urges therapy for sister who refuses doctors out of fear
R. Eric Thomas's 'Asking Eric' column addresses a reader whose 71-year-old sister has avoided medical care for a decade.
What to know
- A reader's 71-year-old sister has avoided doctors for a decade, fearing a fatal diagnosis, while suffering worsening mobility and anxiety.
- Columnist R. Eric Thomas recommends joint therapy sessions and incremental lifestyle changes rather than direct pressure to see a doctor.
- The same column, including a second letter about a family favoring a young nephew over his sister, was republished with varied headlines across at least five U.S. newspapers on the same day.
- No reader comments or social discussion accompanied any of the syndicated versions.
“She has not been to a doctor for at least 10 years and even though she doesn’t feel well, she refuses to see a doctor because she is afraid of getting a fatal diagnosis.”
Letter writer ('Dear Sister'), Anonymous reader · Chicago Tribune ↗ · Sep 18
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Column is syndicated across regional papers with new headlines
Denver Post, Cleveland.com, AL.com and MassLive republish the same column under varied headlines emphasizing the sister's decade without care and fear of a fatal diagnosis.
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Chicago Tribune publishes Thomas's column on the fearful sister
The Chicago Tribune runs the 'Asking Eric' column in which a reader describes her 71-year-old sister's decade-long avoidance of doctors and asks how to change her mind.
“I’ve tried, without success, to convince her to see a doctor since waiting will only make things worse.”
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1 outlet Asking Eric: My 71-year-old sister hasn't seen a doctor in 10 years despite serious symptoms
first by MassLive, 4d ago
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first by Chicago Tribune, 5d ago
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first by AL.com, 4d ago
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- Asking Eric: How can I convince my sister seeing a doctor is a way back to better health? Cleveland.com · 4d ago
and 1 smaller piece